You are either not being honest with yourself (I hope) or are hiding behind the shield of secular humanism on...

You are either not being honest with yourself (I hope) or are hiding behind the shield of secular humanism on purpose. When you question your own beliefs and share your questions that is an honorable and honest thing to do. When you insist that others must question their beliefs - Yes, you are trying to exterminate something meaningful to them. I often (quite often) learn things about myself in these online discussions. I make a sincere effort to know the limitations of my knowledge and myself. If you are an honest and honorable person (like say an Atheist is) I hope you will look at your motivation. I love Atheists and respect Antitheists too but I don't care much for hypocrites.